It’s no secret that I’ve had a bumpy ride lately. A lot of change, ups and downs, periods of growth and retreat… transformation is never smooth. And often during those darker hued days, the days when everything just seems hopeless and too much to bear, I notice the desire to pick up and go. To go somewhere new and start over. Reinvent myself in a new environment. This is probably a version of that familiar old fight or flight response, weighted heavily toward flight when I am just too tired to fight anymore. I wish I could just go somewhere else and start over. But how can I do that when I have responsibilities here, children thriving in school, and let’s face it, I don’t have a money tree in the back yard at the moment? I think I’ve figured out a way.One of the skills I am learning in coaching school is about changing perspectives. Being willing to look at things from a different viewpoint. In fact the course I completed in January was all about that. I know that we create our own reality, I’m no stranger to the concept that in order to change your life you must change your mind.So here’s my solution: Beginners mind. As of today I am new in town. And what would I do if I moved to a new town? I can do all of that right here, right now.There are many new places to be explored. New people to meet. New experiences to discover and try. New routes to be taken. I may even tell people that I meet that I am new here. See what they have to offer. (Technically this is true because I am new, although I have been here a while). It’s so easy to stay in the bubble of daily existence and keep trying to recreate the same experiences over and over. I’ve been operating within one little slice of existence here, it’s time to taste the rest of the pie.
Michelle Leath
Fantastic! Welcome to the Fresno Clovis area!
So beautifully stated. Wonderful plat girlfriend! Good luck “in the new digs!”Much loveShelli
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Great words of wisdom, Michelle!
Your momentum is inspiring! Curious to hear how the unpacking and new adventures unfold.
You are the embodiment of stength and optimism. What an absolutely wonderful way to start each day and live this part of your journey fully!!! Kudos to you.
Thanks for the love, guys! Your support means the world to me and carries me along!
Love it! Inspired! I may try it myself one day. Thanks for the perspective 🙂
Great perspective and you didn’t even have to pack a bag! Mix it up and toss it around -you never know what will pop out. The glass is half full! ox
Excellent post Michelle! I think you nailed it with this one. Be there with it, right where you are. You do create your own reality and you are creating something awesome right now. Welcome to your new life!Marty
Welcome to your new life and Clovis! If you’re looking for a GREAT day drive, there’s this lil town called Merced with boutiques, a great sushi bar and lots of friendly faces!
Sounds like a fabulous adventure, my love. Can’t wait to be part of the travels! Well done.
Look at all the money you’ll be saving on relocating cost! 🙂 Well written.
Nice thoughts, like a breath of fresh air for my mind, instead of the recycled air that makes me weary.